Mary Fusillo and her husband, Bob, have been married for 20 years. She met him on a blind date in Houston. Right away, she knew she liked him.
He was very intellectual, and he "read jazz biographies of dead jazz musicians," she says, laughing.
"And I was used to guys that went hunting on the weekends," she adds.
They fell in love and got married. Pretty soon they had a house and kids — twins, actually.
But within a few years, there was trouble.